How has your life changed since starting college?
15.06.2025 02:10
All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.
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I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.
My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.
-Hitesha.
From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.
My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?
I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.
It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.
From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.
Let’s come to the answer.
From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.
In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.
Why do men like women gold diggers?
I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.
There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.
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How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?
I’ve become more responsible.
In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.
I’ve realized the real value of money.
In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.
Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.
From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.
What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?
How has your life changed since starting college?
I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.
Thanks for reading my answer.
Why does a narcissist act like it's nothing when they hurt you?
The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.
Confidence is the key.
made friends
When a narcissist mad at their new supply, do they take it out on the old supply?
I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.
Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.
I found amazing mentors in my professors.
How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?
Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.
From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.
For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.
Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?
From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls
I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.
Backstory-
I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.
I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.